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2023.05.28 07:52 EnigmaticVoid_8 Fandom RP Search!
Hey, you can call me Void! I’m a literate writer from the East Coast USA (CDT time zone), with nearly a decade of writing experience! I’d like to consider myself as literate/advanced literate, with posts typically ranging from 2-5 paragraphs but can easily exceed that if the scene calls for it! I’m currently looking for partners to partake in an RP set within one of the fandoms I have listed below! I’d like romance to be implemented in some way, with my preferred pairings being FxF and MxF (myself on either role for the latter.) With that being said, all potential partners must be 18 or older! I can do OCxOC or CanonxOC doubles.
Now, the fandoms:
-Star Wars
-Mass Effect
-Dragon Age
-Elder Scrolls
-Overwatch
-Resident Evil
-WoW (Fairly new to the game, so my knowledge on this is quite limited.)
-Marvel (Not MCU)
-DC (Not DCEU)
Let me know if you’re interested! :)
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2023.05.28 07:52 -__-_Throw-away_-__- Very confused and pretty over it!
Not sure what’s been happening. At a loss, and extremely exhausted and depressed. No longer want to socialise or leave the house when I don’t have to and just looking for answers!
30F, GHSV1 positive (asymptomatic for 13 years, it’s meh to me, a cold bothers me more), always had healthy V with no issues until now.
** Had unprotected PIV and Oral. Had the sexual health conversation (I trust him very much so and have no doubt in him) may be unrelated, who knows.
** 6 days later began to feel funny. Symptoms included:
- throat discomfort deep down.
- irritation and discomfort in vagina
** Visited clinic and got swabbed for all STI/ STDs and routine pap.
** 2 days later the symptoms worsened:
- buzzing/ tingling feeling in clitoris that almost felt a sense of arousal at time, sore to the touch. This caused tingles down my legs due to it buzzing on my clitoris I assume.
- slight redness and irritation around upper labia minora just below clitoris/ above urethra.
- intense headaches and a bit sore in the muscles
- pink discharge
** All tests came back negative (chlamydia, Gon, Trich, myco, BV, Yeast) but went back to the doctor 2 weeks later with new symptoms thinking maybe it was too early to test and got more tests.
** All tests came back negative again and a month later symptoms went away. Yay!
** Not yay. 1 week later after symptoms disappeared, the clitoral sensation returns. Tingling buzzing, burning and almost aroused and became incredibly sore to the touch and irritation just under, in the crease at the top of labia minora. New throat pain began as follows:
- tingles to one side for two days
- followed by sore pinching feeling at right side of the top of my throat near nasopharynx
- followed by razor blades down the right side only
This lasted for a week and a half with the vaginal pain/ discomfort. We thought maybe all of this was a weird way of HSV2 presenting itself in both locations so I jumped on Famcyclovir. I think I was on the back end of the throat pain anyway and it started to go away. But the vaginal/ clitoris pain continued. Finally got my doctor to take my Ureaplasma suspicion seriously and got tested. But I have no yeast, or BV or UTI. Iv never had a UTI so I have no clue what that feels like.
** had a week off and it all came back. Clitoris pain/ buzzing and redness around hood and crease in upper labia minora. 5 days in began to hurt when wiping. Throat pain came back on the right (tingles and pinching in same sport) but crept up into my sinuses, ears, and back end it wrecked my right eye (could be unrelated). My nose mostly on the right bloody hurt and I had right ear pain and slight itching. Eye was burning and had very slight discharge.
Iv been swabbed in all areas of concern, blood tested and nothing. Only thing that came up was Ureaplasma but it doesn’t seem to be presenting in the way of that, or could it? I don’t want to take a bunch of antibiotics and screw myself up even more yet if that’s not what Is causing it.. I hate antibiotics and how they affect me.
(Nothing is stuck under my hood. It’s tiny so not enough space and iv checked and cleaned)
ANY advice or anything is greatly appreciated.
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2023.05.28 07:52 adoptedsadly Biological Parents Ain’t Shit
Hey y’all. Kind of looking for some words of encouragement. I was adopted as a child my bio mom never was in my life she was heavy on crack. Bio dad would visit once every few years send gifts on bday & xmas.
Now that I have kids of my own I want them to have a relationship that I was unable to have.
Bio mom said i’m not entitled to a relationship w her and she doesn’t intend on making up for lost time. Had to ask half brother to get her to hmu after 4 months but now she said move on and doesn’t talk to me
Bio dad use to call but doesn’t call nor ever apologize for being petty even tho he’s damn near 70. removed himself from the group chat he created that included me & my siblings. won’t call me but calls my sister and brother.
Any advice to not feel hurt from their actions when they chose drugs and prostitutes over me.
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2023.05.28 07:52 bodi123456 I wish it was real
2023.05.28 07:52 Any_Builder9126 NX350H
Ik the 2024 NX350H is a high demand car. Looking at the Lexus near me in NY. The MSRP is around the 47k-50k range. I was thinking they’ll probably mark it up but was wondering how much you guys got your NXH 350s for. Thank you!
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2023.05.28 07:51 ExtremeCertain4837 Help with LoD WoL monk please
Need help from an experienced monk player please. Am on Switch, have all ancients, including about 5 primal pieces, not fully optimized, but pretty close (only difference is Magefist instead of Stone Gauntlets as it is a primal with perfect offensive stats, using Unity and Vit para to somewhat offset it), at paragon 2.2k. Not augmented.
Already when pushing GR110 I struggle against smaller groups, both in terms of pretty low damage and being squishy as all hell. After a few minutes of dying and being unable to kill elites on a bad map, I closed the rift. This has happened repeatedly. Even my unauged Manand Heal electrocute wizard I rolled for the lols managed to beat GR110 without dying once!
Can't share my build (Switch), but as it follows Maxroll's guide nearly to the letter, I think my struggle is either down to me not understanding LoD WoL strengths and weaknesses, messing up my rotation, or, as I heard, because on the console the wave of light ability may be bugged.
Any help would be greatly appreciated 👍!
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2023.05.28 07:50 mysticstrawberry89 how do i begin to cope
how do i begin to cope with the downfall of me and my moms relationship? we’ve always been so close. we would spend hours talking, i would hold her hand in supermarkets, and know i can always confide in her comfort. i’ve always tried to be independent, and i am. now i’m nearly 18, and have a boyfriend, close to graduation. being around her now feels like drowning. almost something like her broke, changed. a long time coming. she’s not well, physically, nor is she mentally. just like me we have severe depression and bouts of anxiety. i grew my own opinions (esp about lgbtq+ etc) and she’s a close minded person. in so many ways. i asked for privacy with my boyfriend and we barely have space on this living room couch. she won’t let me do anything but hold his hand. or i’m giving it up. i’m not allowed to wear shorts near my knees around him. and she blames me for my siblings acting out. as if they aren’t in their early teens. she secretly thinks i’m a disappointment. even though i’ve been thru hell and back and made it. i’m graduating, and will continue to study. i just want my mom back i’m tired of all this yelling.
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2023.05.28 07:50 adoptedsadly Biological Parents Ain’t Shit
Hey y’all. Kind of looking for some words of encouragement. I was adopted as a child my bio mom never was in my life she was heavy on crack. Bio dad would visit once every few years send gifts on bday & xmas.
Now that I have kids of my own I want them to have a relationship that I was unable to have.
Bio mom said i’m not entitled to a relationship w her and she doesn’t intend on making up for lost time. Had to ask half brother to get her to hmu after 4 months but now she said move on and doesn’t talk to me
Bio dad use to call but doesn’t call nor ever apologize for being petty even tho he’s damn near 70. removed himself from the group chat he created that included me & my siblings. won’t call me but calls my sister and brother.
Any advice to not feel hurt from their actions when they chose drugs and prostitutes over me.
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2023.05.28 07:48 WarmHugs1206 “Meet Me At Mama’s Place”
This happened about two hours ago.
I live in a sleepy part of Metry very close to the parish line but near a major cut-through street that could have you out of the parish in maybe 1-2ish minutes depending how crazy you’re driving. To my delight - It is still very much a neighborhood - from the over priced real estate down the block to the multi-families where drugs are definitely being sold to the wonderfully nosey old ladies in their cottages.
My aunt lives next door to me, we are on a corner and she in the middle of the block between my front street and her other neighbor who faces the cut-through.
Aunt calls me and asks if my husband will go outside and check because someone is knocking on her door and she doesn’t know who it is. My first thought is no fucking way I’m sending him, I’m calling 911. She tells me to wait. I do. I’ve got a sleeping 3 yr old snuggled together with husband and if I wake one, I wake both. She offers no details besides that this person knocked and is now sitting on her porch. And is wearing a baseball cap. She lives alone. It’s not very well lit.
I tell her to hold on and I start putting my boots. I’m going check her front door from around the way. Before I get out my own door she says “oh my god he’s coming to my back door call 911” so I hang up and call 911. Lock my own back door which is a good few paces from hers and also very poorly lit. I’m panicking because - isn’t home invasion like everyone’s worst nightmare?
While on the phone with 911, I’m looking at my aunt’s house through my bathroom window. I can’t see the back door and momentarily I can see a guy in the shadows come from the back of my aunt’s house and begin to make his way to the aforementioned thoroughfare. I then see my neighbor on the other side of aunt’s house come out and start talking to the guy. From my window all I can see is the back of shadow guy walking away from my aunt’s house. Intervening neighbor has two small children inside.
My husband at my prompting gets up at this point and isn’t alarmed in the least. “It’s probably some drunk guy wandering into the wrong house.” There is a neighborhood bar nearby. Fair-ish enough although for the better part of a decade living here we have never had a drunk visitor.
We’re both watching the neighbor talk to the guy while I’m still on the line with 911. The shadow’s body language suggests harmlessness but that could also be drug-addled and reckless. Erratic?! Who can tell? The 911 dispatcher informs me that there are now units on the scene.
Like fucking stealth hawks in the night four JPSO squad cars pull up on either side of the block 2/2. No lights no sounds. They were there in five minutes flat.
Turns out by the time the officers got there my aunt figured out it was a friend of her son, early 20’s. My cousin had told said “burglar” friend via text to “meet me at mama’s place” and friend thought he meant his literal mother’s house. Friend is not drunk whatsoever. He’s a sweet guy who interpreted my cousin literally. He even arrived with a six pack of Andy gator. Cousin had apparently texted him “come through the back” - hence the walking to attempt to enter through the back porch.
As we stood in the street while the cops pulled away without fanfare we couldn’t help but laugh. All I could think was how relieved I was it wasn’t a bad guy. How ridiculous I felt for such a false alarm. And how fucking glad I was that if it had been bad that the police showed up. Holy fuck.
Now. There are many holes in the Swiss cheese that aligned to create a memorable situation for my aunt, my cousins’s friend, and me.
All I can tell you is this: at some point in the first conversation with my aunt, I was scared shitless. The next thing is that those squad cars showed up so fast I was astonished. The final thing I will tell you is that I don’t keep a gun in my home because I don’t know how to use one. I believe in them. So if you’re like me, reinforce your doors, or if you do responsibly own a gun, you know who you are. Don’t let the fright lead you. Key word is responsible.
The final, final is - thank you to JPSO. And to NOPD please know that effective policing is possible. What’s your problem? This is not a blame on individuals, it’s a blame on the organization. I used to live in a “safe” part of Orleans parish. I do not consider it as such now because criminal activity which did not exist there before some recent snap of fingers -??? I am extremely concerned about the individual NOPD officers and how degraded they are. Support our police. Public safety is a joint effort.
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2023.05.28 07:48 -__-_Throw-away_-__- Very confused and pretty over it!
Not sure what’s been happening. At a loss, and extremely exhausted and depressed. No longer want to socialise or leave the house when I don’t have to and just looking for answers!
30F, GHSV1 positive (asymptomatic for 13 years, it’s meh to me, a cold bothers me more), always had healthy V with no issues until now.
** Had unprotected PIV and Oral. Had the sexual health conversation (I trust him very much so and have no doubt in him) may be unrelated, who knows.
** 6 days later began to feel funny. Symptoms included:
- throat discomfort deep down.
- irritation and discomfort in vagina
** Visited clinic and got swabbed for all STI/ STDs and routine pap.
** 2 days later the symptoms worsened:
- buzzing/ tingling feeling in clitoris that almost felt a sense of arousal at time, sore to the touch. This caused tingles down my legs due to it buzzing on my clitoris I assume.
- slight redness and irritation around upper labia minora just below clitoris/ above urethra.
- intense headaches and a bit sore in the muscles
- pink discharge
** All tests came back negative (chlamydia, Gon, Trich, myco, BV, Yeast) but went back to the doctor 2 weeks later with new symptoms thinking maybe it was too early to test and got more tests.
** All tests came back negative again and a month later symptoms went away. Yay!
** Not yay. 1 week later after symptoms disappeared, the clitoral sensation returns. Tingling buzzing, burning and almost aroused and became incredibly sore to the touch and irritation just under, in the crease at the top of labia minora. New throat pain began as follows:
- tingles to one side for two days
- followed by sore pinching feeling at right side of the top of my throat near nasopharynx
- followed by razor blades down the right side only
This lasted for a week and a half with the vaginal pain/ discomfort. We thought maybe all of this was a weird way of HSV2 presenting itself in both locations so I jumped on Famcyclovir. I think I was on the back end of the throat pain anyway and it started to go away. But the vaginal/ clitoris pain continued. Finally got my doctor to take my Ureaplasma suspicion seriously and got tested. But I have no yeast, or BV or UTI. Iv never had a UTI so I have no clue what that feels like.
** had a week off and it all came back. Clitoris pain/ buzzing and redness around hood and crease in upper labia minora. 5 days in began to hurt when wiping. Throat pain came back on the right (tingles and pinching in same sport) but crept up into my sinuses, ears, and back end it wrecked my right eye (could be unrelated). My nose mostly on the right bloody hurt and I had right ear pain and slight itching. Eye was burning and had very slight discharge.
Iv been swabbed in all areas of concern, blood tested and nothing. Only thing that came up was Ureaplasma but it doesn’t seem to be presenting in the way of that, or could it? I don’t want to take a bunch of antibiotics and screw myself up even more yet if that’s not what Is causing it.. I hate antibiotics and how they affect me.
(Nothing is stuck under my hood. It’s tiny so not enough space and iv checked and cleaned)
ANY advice or anything is greatly appreciated.
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2023.05.28 07:47 indianfoodincary Indian Food Near Me
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2023.05.28 07:47 Healthy-Froyo-8194 The possibility a Mangaplus creator, manga series can be adapted into an anime
I’ve been thinking for a while about creating a manga to break records and sail to the new top. With creative new ideas to add to anime as a whole. One thing has been on my mind even though Im not from Japan there are sites to post your works independently, like WEBTOON, Mangaplus creators, etc. Is it even slightly possible to get a series to that height to become an anime adaptation?
I know that webtoon has made some series on Crunchyroll like god of highschool and some others that I can’t remember the names atm but would Mangaplus be a better place to start? Even though the creator side of manga plus is very new to this day it is coming up on a year old. Given the youth of the program I feel it would be a prime chance to upon that void to be the first, and make a name for myself.
I’ve got a lot of planes and ideas boiling and rendering in my head about where to start on the series and what to do for it I feel like this is the place to ask questions. I would really love to see my characters and ideas in action but I need to start somewhere.
Please let me know your thoughts I’m really intrigued to see what everyone says and share this with friends if this at all interests you. Maybe there can be a collaboration of creators in the near future.
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2023.05.28 07:45 big-guy-small-car a unicorn rare 1988 chevy nova twin cam. it was the only way to get a 4age in an ae82 4 door in the u.s. the current twin cam nova registry has 12 on it including this one. located in a junkyard near me.
2023.05.28 07:44 strawberrycow-wow what are things i can do to continue to make positive progress when times are tough?
tonight it’s rough. i had been doing so well the past year but tonight i am having quite the breakdown.
i ate a chicken sandwich and some fries. i remember not being able to eat chicken for a while due to me being petrified of food poisoning. i am trying very hard to not jump to a food poisoning conclusion or the stomach bug. my siblings ate the same things from the restaurants and they are both fine. i am wondering if this is just a SEVERE GERD flare up. i try to burp a little but it just ends up being water brash and i’m nearly regurgitating. i passed some green stools too.
i am so tired right now it’s nearly 2 am and i worked all day today i really wish i could put this on pause and just feel nauseous a different time haha.
back to my point, i feel like i am regressing in progress because i am overthinking about the dinner i ate and that i’ve contracted good poisoning since the nausea hasn’t gone away and i’m trembling (shakey?)
if i let myself go too far, i feel like i may spiral and go back to my old habits.
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2023.05.28 07:42 hyperspace-elf 5/27/23 Ground-level yellow blinking/pulsing light
I almost never post things on the internet in general, and almost didn't want to make this its own thread, but just can't resist reaching out to see if others have experienced something similar as I can't seem so find anything even close. I know these things are real, but am also a healthy skeptic myself, so please, flame away if you must, I understand where you're coming from.
5/27/23 Ground-level yellow blinking light42/300
I live alone, pretty far out in the county. (Like, Amish neighbors far out)
I've had experiences with these (usually) high altitude, obviously intelligently controlled craft/light(s) that many describe. Many times over the years, in fact. Almost always with other people present, also witnessing the same things, so though jarring, things always felt safe.
Well, it'd been awhile (a year or so) and something inside me decided it was time tonight to go outside, look up, and to try to say hello; see if anyone was in the area.
About 9:30, make coffee and go stand out in a spot in my yard (not too far from the house, ~50ft) with the best view of the entire sky. Very dark, party cloudy. While staring at the sky waiting for my eyes to get adjusted to the darkness of the sky, I tried meditating on just being a calm, peaceful, and welcoming presence out there. After a few minutes of standing, I decided to walk down to the boathouse shed next to the pond (maybe ~60 feet from the house) to grab a lawn chair that I could take back to my spot in the yard.
Not a minute after returning to my spot and setting up the chair do I notice a very small, blinking/pulsing yellow light zipping around down by the pond in the SAME AREA that I JUST WAS a minute or so before. I watched, it would blink erratically a few times, allowing me to catch its path of travel, then disappear, only to reappear a second or two later in a completely different location in that area with another few quick blinks/pulses of this yellow light. One second it'd be ground level, another, it was floating up to the top of one of the trees nearby the pond. No sound. At this point I know that something strange had arrived, and also that it was VERY aware that I was there and looking in it's direction. I got my hello. My heart immediately starts racing out of control. I'd not had this CLOSE an experience before, and was hardly ready for it. My mind hopelessly attempts to attribute it to a firefly, as that's what it could MOST closely relate this sighting to. But it traveled around MUCH too quickly, blinking patterns were odd, and as I tried to quickly reevaluate my surroundings, there were exactly 0 other fireflies around ANYWHERE. We don't get them until late June/Early July anyways.
At this point I'm beginning to feel overwhelmed because I keep loosing it's position between the blinks/pulses and wondered if it intended on coming nearer to me, so, out of fear, I began walking briskly back towards the house, attempting to respectfully make clear that I'd suddenly gotten very overwhelmed due to the close proximity of this encounter, which I hadn't experienced before, and needed to stop. Once I was back on my back porch, near the door of the house, I took another long look back in that direction. Though I was genuinely freaked, I still wanted to see if I could catch it's flashes once more. I did, and it was coming quickly nearer, about at the spot in the yard where I'd just been. In an instant, I felt my entire nervous system electrically light up, all the blood drain from my body, my face go pale. I couldn't help but to nervously scurry back inside, my self-preservation taking the wheel. I wish I could've shown more courage, but the behavior of these things have a way of making you feel very small and helpless, especially in one-on-one encounters.
Again, not trying to prove anything, just trying to detail an experience that I had. Still in that, 'not quite sure how to proceed' state. I feel bad, I meant no disrespect and attempted to make that clear. Don't ask unless you are prepared to receive, I suppose.
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2023.05.28 07:41 CPlayto 6 days sober - Fun story!
During that first COVID summer I bought an inflatable boat (it's a real boat not a toy lol) so my wife and I could get out on some of the lakes in the parks near our house without investing in a truck & trailer. It sat in the garage unopened for the past 3 years.
I landed on
cirrhosis last weekend and spiralled. Something stuck, because I've done what I couldn't do for years/over a decade - shut down the drinking.
This morning, after the first Friday I didn't drink in memory, my wife and I were having coffee together (already a great Saturday morning) and I remembered the boat. Now, I had remembered the boat several times in the past and I love being out on the water, but I had been too lazy, too out of shape, too hungover, and too unwilling to give up a socially acceptable afternoon drinking window to commit to unboxing and figuring out the damn thing.
From the time I had the idea this morning I; unboxed it, figured it out, packed in into the car, packed a full-on picnic, went to the park, paddled it across the lake where they were having an art fair, did the art fair thing, had a picnic with my wife (coke zero, no beer or white claw), got back in the boat, she did some reading I did some fishing, paddled back, and we spent the early evening heading to a few stores to get the trolling motor setup because we wanted to go back out tomorrow.
My wife said it was the best day she'd had with me in a long time. I agreed.
It's 1am on my 7th day here. IWNDWYT (sp?)
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2023.05.28 07:41 GoGoWolf PLEASE HELP!!! Lost bird near SANTA CLARA UNIVERSITY
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2023.05.28 07:40 GoGoWolf Please help my find my baby!
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2023.05.28 07:39 aaspicy 26 [TF4M] Ate girl na gusto na jumowa
Madami dami na akong nakikita na reddit success stories dito so tingnan natin if magwowork nga ba. Wag niyo ko kulitin sa hookup kasi di yan hanap ko now
About me: Cutie na trans F 🏳️⚧️, 5’4, fair and short hair and talkative. Has cats, Likes fashion and gaming. Confident naman akong cutie ako tingnan mo nalang profile ko hahahaha
About you:
-Cutie din - mas matangkad sa akin or pwede din kaheight ko -Kaya magcarry din ng convo - a plus if bisexual or pansexual ka kasi mas madali tayo magconnect - Not sexist, transphobic, homophobic, apologist etc. - Near QC or nearby placrs
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2023.05.28 07:39 lostings My co-workers won’t stop asking about my boyfriend and it’s only gotten worse.
I’m (20f) a caregiver at a group home and I just started working here barely a month ago. I’ve been doing everything correctly but my co-workers keep on asking about my boyfriend (24m) and it’s gotten to the point where I’m scared my job is in jeopardy.
For context, my boyfriend drives me to and from work and parks outside while I’m working (I work the graveyard shift). He does not feel comfortable going back to my home without me due to some conflict between him and my parents (who we’re staying with until we have enough money to find a place) and the fact that it’s about a 35-40 mile drive one way (70-80 round trip, if he were to go back home it would be around 140-160 miles per day and we don’t have the money to pay for that kind of gas). Also note he’s comfortable staying out in the car and sleeping in it as needed, his car is his treasure. He does not enter or go near the house I’m working in at all and does not come in contact with anything related to the house.
Moving on… it all started when a co-worker commented about a guy parking across the street and sitting in his car, in which I let her know that it was my ride and he was waiting to come pick me up. I didn’t think much of it since it’s just conversation and I didn’t think my boyfriend being parked across the street would be a big deal. She started asking more questions about it, like if I had a DL, my own car, why he was out there waiting for me, ect. I answered all the questions honestly and we moved on.
The next day two other co-workers bring it up and they both tell me, “Don’t bring him inside, it’s not your house, we need to respect people’s privacy and it’s not appropriate”, and they went on for about 5 minutes about it. I know it’s related to another situation regarding another employee who got put in suspension for that exact thing happening (plus some worse stuff happened relating the person’s partner after entering the house but I won’t elaborate on it), but every day that I have worked either Management has notified me or another co-worker, each time getting more aggressive. While having these conversations I also added that it’s a HIPAA Violation to do so and that neither my boyfriend or I are interested in doing anything close to that. Today at work about an hour after my shift started one of my co-workers (not on the schedule today) pulled up to the house, sat in his car for like 5 minutes and then drove off. My boyfriend texted me telling me about this and I feel very uncomfortable being here. Maybe I’m just being paranoid, but I really do feel like people are gossiping about me and it’s going to lead to an unlawful investigation with suspension and potentially getting fired even though I didn’t do anything wrong. I’m thinking of calling HR when I get off work although I’m unsure of whether that’ll actually help. What should I do?
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2023.05.28 07:39 aaspicy 26 [TF4M] Ate girl na gusto na jumowa
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2023.05.28 07:38 Illustrious_Town_163 Is it possible to lose weight with Cushing’s?
I’ve had some Cushing’s symptoms since 2011, but they’re mostly ones that overlap with PCOS - absent periods and hair growth. I also gained a lot of weight around that time, but my lifestyle was terrible food and exercise wise. I also have severe anxiety but I’ve had that all my life, it just really flared up then and I ended up on antidepressants. My weight is mostly in the belly and my face is fat but I wouldn’t say moon face, and I haven’t developed any of the other hallmarks of Cushing’s like high blood pressure, diabetes, muscle weakness, stretch marks or fatigue.
Anyway, I went through various Cushing’s testing in 2013 which came out all negative. Endocrinologist diagnosed me with PCOS. I really didn’t do anything about it but at now realizing I should have and am getting on meds for it and working on weight loss. If it’s PCOS, cool and that makes sense as several women in my family have it and my periods were never regular, but I’m perplexed by a recent result indicating my estrogen isn’t high, which women with PCOS usually have.
The worry of Cushing’s never really went away, but this year I’ve lost 30 pounds and quite easily, just by cutting back on unhealthy food. My understanding is that would be near impossible with Cushing’s. Is that correct?
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