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Emotionally devastated
2023.03.31 08:13 Top-Blackberry-4625 Emotionally devastated
I want kids, he doesn’t. We’ve been together for over 5 years. He’s my best friend and my only friend. We run a business together and our finances are linked. I’m unable to drive on highways due to ptsd over an almost accident and he drives me around. We have the same political and moral beliefs, as well as many of the same shortcomings and ability to relate to one another. I have no one aside from him since I’m not good at making friends and have no family around. This is possibly one of the worst days of my life, realizing we aren’t that compatible. It’s so incredibly heartbreaking.
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2023.03.31 08:11 Stoolnotgood Running SAS HBA @ pcie 3.0 1x
Retired a asrock J5005-ITX, used a little plex box. Was thinking about reusing it as a small unraid backup. It's still a pretty solid motherboard cpu combo.
Opened up the pci-e 1x slot to fit bigger cards, but would a LSI 9207-8i get enough power? The plan is to run 5 8tb drives in a Jonsbo N1.
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Opened up the pci-e 1x slot to fit bigger cards, but would a LSI 9207-8i get enough power? The plan is to run 5 8tb drives in a Jonsbo N1.
2023.03.31 08:07 bignippy How do I deal with difficult coworkers?
Hi everyone. Sorry for the long post!
Tldr; boss treats me different to others when doing jobs together (negatively), boss and coworker are condescending and make me feel inadequate at my job, how do I deal with this?
So I started a kind of dream job as an arborist almost 5 months ago, everything job wise is going great, I love the work and the potential of what comes next, it's super fitting for my personality. For context I'm female, so this kind of career path for a woman is a bit out of the norm. I've struggled a lot with being surrounded solely by men and the feeling of needing to prove I belong in my job, that I'm good enough/have the drive to become good enough to keep up. It's hard, but feels super accomplished. When I started I definitely wasn't up to scratch with what everyone else can do but I've become so much stronger and more competent in my role, I have a long way to go but I've come so far and I'm really proud of myself.
The issue I'm facing is a couple of my co-workers cause my brain to do a serious backslide on my confidence with so many of our interactions. It's nothing sexist or anyone outright saying I don't belong where I do, it's a bit more regular difficult/annoying coworker.
When I started I had this great boss who made me feel super comfortable with my progress and any mistakes I made, they left and now another guy has taken over his role. And don't get me wrong, the guy in question is fantastic at his job, I aspire to be as capable as him one day. But the way he treats me is confusing and to me feels degrading. He's extremely sarcastic and snarky in the blokey bloke kind of way, passing off harsh comments about my work as humour. He either won't let me have a go or when I do try something new he'll nitpick everything I do, won't let me just figure new things out, or legit take the tool off me after 5 minutes with no feedback so I don't know if he's taking it off me because I'm not doing a good job (which I think would be shit anyway) or he's just sick of watching me doing something, I have 0 idea it's really odd to me.
The job I do also requires a lot of communication to make sure everything is safe (key fucking point, it's a dangerous job, we NEED good communication), but when I do a job in tandem with this guy he gets very blunt and huffy whenever I ask for clarification or communication. For example, while rigging (i.e. lowering big branches to the ground using a rope) I always try make sure I know how big the branch he's going to cut will be so I can figure out if I can rig it down without extra tools or I'll need the friction device. When I ask he'll either speak to me like I'm an idiot or just won't reply. The kicker for this is I've watched him with the other guys and he enthusiastically answers any of their questions and allows them time to adjust themselves and do what they need to do on the ground. This is one example of many, it blows my mind.
A major problem with this is I'm a very socially anxious person, if I'm around someone I feel doubts me or puts me down a lot it seriously stresses me out, leading to me becoming really flustered and I end up making really simple mistakes or missing simple things, essentially making me look shit at my job. (It only happens in front of these two guys because everyone else makes me feel comfortable enough).
There's also just a lot of snarky comments veiled as humour that make me feel like shit or that I'm some kind of joke. This is usually enjoyed by the other problem guy at work who's extremely condescending towards me (he'll cut me off mid sentence to say hurry up with what I'm doing even though there's no rush and he stands around and chats half the time, then runs over to me and PULLS THINGS OUT OF MY HAND to do the job I'm already doing, that I would say I wasn't doing that slowly), he also does the same behaviour with not letting me have a go or figure things out, or just tell me what to do when it's completely unnecessary in a very condescending tone.
These two are definitely the "fan faves" of the workers, one of which is still an apprentice and I feel gets unfair advantages over the other apprentice that's been there similar time (but that's just my opinion). Usually if both of them are there, I'll be having a shit day. One on one time with either is usually fine too, so idk if they're just trying to show each other up/peacock their position of power.
All of this isn't made easier by the fact I'm not super comfortable around men, there's maybe 1 or 2 men in my life I feel completely relaxed around (who aren't my dad), I'm not sure why I'm like this but it's a big player in feeling comfortable in my environment. Talking to guys is way harder than talking to women for me (in a platonic way I mean, not intimately or whatever), and building friendships seems to take way longer with men than women for me (which isn't for a lack of trying, I've tried very hard to be friends with everyone at work, go to every work event for outside socialising, we've even worked away together and slept in the same house for up to a week at a time, but I still feel I can't break that barrier with these two).
Basically the comments and the behaviour make me extremely anxious and feel inadequate, like I'm the village idiot who can't do anything right and that I'm as incompetent as when I first started, like I haven't made any progress (which I know isn't true). It's hard to ignore them because one of them is my literal boss, if I don't look like I'm doing a good job in front of him I won't progress and I'll get left out of opportunities that further my skills. The only way I can think to resolve this is by having a one on one chat (very carefully) to basically ask him to stop making me feel like shit and give me a better shot at figuring things out.
So essentially I'm here to ask, with some of the details, what the fuck do I do about this? I really don't want my dream job to be tainted by people who make me feel less than. Just to be clear as well, I don't think any of this is motivated by sexism or anything, I've seen him act this way to other apprentices and new people. I just wanna be able to enjoy my job again and focus on becoming better at what I do.
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Tldr; boss treats me different to others when doing jobs together (negatively), boss and coworker are condescending and make me feel inadequate at my job, how do I deal with this?
So I started a kind of dream job as an arborist almost 5 months ago, everything job wise is going great, I love the work and the potential of what comes next, it's super fitting for my personality. For context I'm female, so this kind of career path for a woman is a bit out of the norm. I've struggled a lot with being surrounded solely by men and the feeling of needing to prove I belong in my job, that I'm good enough/have the drive to become good enough to keep up. It's hard, but feels super accomplished. When I started I definitely wasn't up to scratch with what everyone else can do but I've become so much stronger and more competent in my role, I have a long way to go but I've come so far and I'm really proud of myself.
The issue I'm facing is a couple of my co-workers cause my brain to do a serious backslide on my confidence with so many of our interactions. It's nothing sexist or anyone outright saying I don't belong where I do, it's a bit more regular difficult/annoying coworker.
When I started I had this great boss who made me feel super comfortable with my progress and any mistakes I made, they left and now another guy has taken over his role. And don't get me wrong, the guy in question is fantastic at his job, I aspire to be as capable as him one day. But the way he treats me is confusing and to me feels degrading. He's extremely sarcastic and snarky in the blokey bloke kind of way, passing off harsh comments about my work as humour. He either won't let me have a go or when I do try something new he'll nitpick everything I do, won't let me just figure new things out, or legit take the tool off me after 5 minutes with no feedback so I don't know if he's taking it off me because I'm not doing a good job (which I think would be shit anyway) or he's just sick of watching me doing something, I have 0 idea it's really odd to me.
The job I do also requires a lot of communication to make sure everything is safe (key fucking point, it's a dangerous job, we NEED good communication), but when I do a job in tandem with this guy he gets very blunt and huffy whenever I ask for clarification or communication. For example, while rigging (i.e. lowering big branches to the ground using a rope) I always try make sure I know how big the branch he's going to cut will be so I can figure out if I can rig it down without extra tools or I'll need the friction device. When I ask he'll either speak to me like I'm an idiot or just won't reply. The kicker for this is I've watched him with the other guys and he enthusiastically answers any of their questions and allows them time to adjust themselves and do what they need to do on the ground. This is one example of many, it blows my mind.
A major problem with this is I'm a very socially anxious person, if I'm around someone I feel doubts me or puts me down a lot it seriously stresses me out, leading to me becoming really flustered and I end up making really simple mistakes or missing simple things, essentially making me look shit at my job. (It only happens in front of these two guys because everyone else makes me feel comfortable enough).
There's also just a lot of snarky comments veiled as humour that make me feel like shit or that I'm some kind of joke. This is usually enjoyed by the other problem guy at work who's extremely condescending towards me (he'll cut me off mid sentence to say hurry up with what I'm doing even though there's no rush and he stands around and chats half the time, then runs over to me and PULLS THINGS OUT OF MY HAND to do the job I'm already doing, that I would say I wasn't doing that slowly), he also does the same behaviour with not letting me have a go or figure things out, or just tell me what to do when it's completely unnecessary in a very condescending tone.
These two are definitely the "fan faves" of the workers, one of which is still an apprentice and I feel gets unfair advantages over the other apprentice that's been there similar time (but that's just my opinion). Usually if both of them are there, I'll be having a shit day. One on one time with either is usually fine too, so idk if they're just trying to show each other up/peacock their position of power.
All of this isn't made easier by the fact I'm not super comfortable around men, there's maybe 1 or 2 men in my life I feel completely relaxed around (who aren't my dad), I'm not sure why I'm like this but it's a big player in feeling comfortable in my environment. Talking to guys is way harder than talking to women for me (in a platonic way I mean, not intimately or whatever), and building friendships seems to take way longer with men than women for me (which isn't for a lack of trying, I've tried very hard to be friends with everyone at work, go to every work event for outside socialising, we've even worked away together and slept in the same house for up to a week at a time, but I still feel I can't break that barrier with these two).
Basically the comments and the behaviour make me extremely anxious and feel inadequate, like I'm the village idiot who can't do anything right and that I'm as incompetent as when I first started, like I haven't made any progress (which I know isn't true). It's hard to ignore them because one of them is my literal boss, if I don't look like I'm doing a good job in front of him I won't progress and I'll get left out of opportunities that further my skills. The only way I can think to resolve this is by having a one on one chat (very carefully) to basically ask him to stop making me feel like shit and give me a better shot at figuring things out.
So essentially I'm here to ask, with some of the details, what the fuck do I do about this? I really don't want my dream job to be tainted by people who make me feel less than. Just to be clear as well, I don't think any of this is motivated by sexism or anything, I've seen him act this way to other apprentices and new people. I just wanna be able to enjoy my job again and focus on becoming better at what I do.
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2023.03.31 08:02 WorldAwayTweedy My Letter To Someone Who Was Eaten By A Bear
I’m a cosmic accident, I think.
Nothing I eat is natural. It’s carbonated, plastic, packaged, pulled off multiple conveyer belts and hastily cobbled together by the fastest machine or underachiever who can assemble it a thousand times over in an hour. Put on a shelf by another underachiever. Left there as long as legally possible. I eat it and deep down I think that’s charming. I think I’m special because I have some money but prefer eating trash over something that had the slightest semblance of care put into it. I don’t need organic, grass-fed, farm-raised, non-GMO shit. I don’t need stuff that has the appearance of effort. Give me the sludge. I’m different after all. An anomaly. So unique, in fact, that my life just has to end up grand.
I convince myself that I’m self-aware. So self-aware that I’m aware that I use self-awareness to power my ego. God damn that’s aware. Aware about my awareness. Aware wolf. Fuck you.
I keep going back to nature. There’s something there that I haven’t… written yet about it. There’s a deeper observation that I haven’t dug out of the earth yet. The whole thing haunts me. It’s so interesting and clinical. It’s so brutal. It’s also the very essence of everything. It just fucking is man. I’ve never seen a thing that is more what it fucking is than nature, y’know? To quote the great David Attenborough: It just fucking is, man.
Nature is beings of various levels of consciousness trolling for energy. Cows are cute and they sit in the field and eat grass and their big meaty bodies grow and achieve sustenance through this. Nothing brutal. Grass doesn’t have feelings. Seriously. The whole world could be fucking cows, and aside from that weird global warming thing that’s tied to cows farting that I don’t really understand, it would all be chill and it would all be peaceful.
Panda bears! Should’ve gone extinct. But we think they’re cute, and so they live. Which is a good thing. Sorry incels. Lookism is a thing even for PETA. Besides some human intervention – fences, caretakers, people to plant trees I’m guessing, Panda bears exist by eating bamboo. Just. Bamboo. Their fucking big meaty bodies and adorable faces fatten up nice and plump through bamboo. How? Seriously. How does that work?
If the planet were vegan humans, Cows, and Panda Bears, who could ever imagine that nature was brutal and unkind and built on the foundation of "survival of the fittest"?
But no, there are other animals. Bears. Cutest fucking things. They can swim and climb trees and run faster than all of us. They eat plants, berries, fish (kind of sentient), other bear cubs, deers, most mammals if they run into them, no? And they need meat to survive, in part. And they stalk their prey, and they can smell 100x better than humans can. Evolution has hard-wired them to devour so they can live and reproduce.
Devour is a great word. It sounds brutal. The process of devouring is brutal. They eat their victims live. They don’t snap their necks. They just bite and chew and crunch and the prey has to feel most of it. Why does the prey have to feel most of it, you ask? Well, my dear friend, because nature has hard-wired the prey to live. Hard-wired it to avoid pain, as pain often (correctly) indicates some sort of danger.
So, the bear wins the engagement. The deer loses. Evolution rewards the bear with sustenance so that it can stay alive. Conscious. Here. Thinking. The brain gets to continue. The bear gets to continue. The deer has to feel every brutal fucking sting of its destruction. It feels itself disappearing, flesh and meat being pulled from the bone. It is the most painful moment of that deer’s life. It has to be. Millions of years of progression that led to the birth of that deer. Its pre-programmed fears. Its biological drives. Its... unique quirks. The ones that it has to have. If you have pets, you know what I'm talking about. All of this leading to this one moment, where the world is the most "itself" its ever been. The thing we all know and understand. The hierarchy of things. The deer was born, it lived, and it made its way to this pivotal moment - a day’s sustenance for a stranger. Perhaps some biological thrill for this bear who doesn't really ever think about anything at all. And the most pain the deer has ever experienced.
And then it’s gone forever.
Deer can’t think as much as we can. I think about the mistakes that people make.
More likely than not, you have to truly fuck up, to get eaten as a person.
It’s almost like a throwback! Or a real moment of empathy. You're sharing a true, kindred understanding of the experience shared by your fellow prey. We’re not supposed to be in this, and yet, you hiked in the wrong spot, took the wrong advice, made the wrong sorts of noises, and assumed the world was fair. And you were eaten.
You were born. And then you were eaten. You were a day’s sustenance for a bear.
And that was the point! That was your point. That is why you were born. To be energy for something that only acts on instinct. All of the points along the way – the ways that you influenced people, or hurt them, or hugged them, or fucked them, or truly cared about them, or were oblivious (P.S. this is the one that killed you), they led to this.
People gather around you and your mother in the room you were born in. You’re born with company. You’re never born alone. Imagine if they all knew how it all was going to end.
You were born to feed a stranger.
You, very likely, believed that all of this was fair. And that you might have some luck. Or some God. You thought that terrible happenings were aberrations– rare, far away, would never happen to you. Three sentence stories in the paper.
But that same programming that exists in the deer exists in you. Pain = Bad. Getting Devoured = Death. Evolution hates death. LIVE. SURVIVE. REPRODUCE. You must! And here’s your reminder to make sure that nature keeps you in check – the worst fucking physical pain on planet earth. Ungodly pain. Pain off the spectrum. Pain you didn’t know you could access. Pain that humans have, for the most part, completely wiped out. But it’s there! You’re an animal after all.
And yet, something more sinister is paired with all of this. Deer don’t read philosophy. You do. You read The Metamorphosis in Lit 101 and it made you feel empty. Forgetting Sarah Marshall left a personal impact on you in a way that you just know is different from your peers. Sometimes in the middle of the night you think about how much you love your mom and you’re so confused at how little you feel that during the day but at night you just wanna cry and bawl and fucking hell you just love everyone. You read poetry. You listen to stand up comedy. You’ve listened to Jerry Seinfeld talk about joke construction. Words. Their meaning. The ways in which you arrange them. Delivery. There’s a good way to write something. There’s a perfect way to write something. Conversations have rhythm. Dialogue in scripts. Aaron Sorkin has a specific style of writing. He just does. It clicks for some people. It doesn’t for others. You like it, for the most part.
And now you’re getting eaten by a bear.
And beyond the physical pain is the mental pain. You have to think about this as you feed a stranger. Your whole life. All of the beautiful moments. The ways in which people describe the cosmos. Star stuff. A divine order to things. Everything happens for a reason.
A bear with a dead stare eats you. You fade away.
The bear escapes on its merry way.
Life goes on.
I stop thinking about you.
I think about ordering a Slurpee using Uber Eats. I opt for Skip the Dishes instead. I’m not sure why.
May you rest in peace.
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Nothing I eat is natural. It’s carbonated, plastic, packaged, pulled off multiple conveyer belts and hastily cobbled together by the fastest machine or underachiever who can assemble it a thousand times over in an hour. Put on a shelf by another underachiever. Left there as long as legally possible. I eat it and deep down I think that’s charming. I think I’m special because I have some money but prefer eating trash over something that had the slightest semblance of care put into it. I don’t need organic, grass-fed, farm-raised, non-GMO shit. I don’t need stuff that has the appearance of effort. Give me the sludge. I’m different after all. An anomaly. So unique, in fact, that my life just has to end up grand.
I convince myself that I’m self-aware. So self-aware that I’m aware that I use self-awareness to power my ego. God damn that’s aware. Aware about my awareness. Aware wolf. Fuck you.
I keep going back to nature. There’s something there that I haven’t… written yet about it. There’s a deeper observation that I haven’t dug out of the earth yet. The whole thing haunts me. It’s so interesting and clinical. It’s so brutal. It’s also the very essence of everything. It just fucking is man. I’ve never seen a thing that is more what it fucking is than nature, y’know? To quote the great David Attenborough: It just fucking is, man.
Nature is beings of various levels of consciousness trolling for energy. Cows are cute and they sit in the field and eat grass and their big meaty bodies grow and achieve sustenance through this. Nothing brutal. Grass doesn’t have feelings. Seriously. The whole world could be fucking cows, and aside from that weird global warming thing that’s tied to cows farting that I don’t really understand, it would all be chill and it would all be peaceful.
Panda bears! Should’ve gone extinct. But we think they’re cute, and so they live. Which is a good thing. Sorry incels. Lookism is a thing even for PETA. Besides some human intervention – fences, caretakers, people to plant trees I’m guessing, Panda bears exist by eating bamboo. Just. Bamboo. Their fucking big meaty bodies and adorable faces fatten up nice and plump through bamboo. How? Seriously. How does that work?
If the planet were vegan humans, Cows, and Panda Bears, who could ever imagine that nature was brutal and unkind and built on the foundation of "survival of the fittest"?
But no, there are other animals. Bears. Cutest fucking things. They can swim and climb trees and run faster than all of us. They eat plants, berries, fish (kind of sentient), other bear cubs, deers, most mammals if they run into them, no? And they need meat to survive, in part. And they stalk their prey, and they can smell 100x better than humans can. Evolution has hard-wired them to devour so they can live and reproduce.
Devour is a great word. It sounds brutal. The process of devouring is brutal. They eat their victims live. They don’t snap their necks. They just bite and chew and crunch and the prey has to feel most of it. Why does the prey have to feel most of it, you ask? Well, my dear friend, because nature has hard-wired the prey to live. Hard-wired it to avoid pain, as pain often (correctly) indicates some sort of danger.
So, the bear wins the engagement. The deer loses. Evolution rewards the bear with sustenance so that it can stay alive. Conscious. Here. Thinking. The brain gets to continue. The bear gets to continue. The deer has to feel every brutal fucking sting of its destruction. It feels itself disappearing, flesh and meat being pulled from the bone. It is the most painful moment of that deer’s life. It has to be. Millions of years of progression that led to the birth of that deer. Its pre-programmed fears. Its biological drives. Its... unique quirks. The ones that it has to have. If you have pets, you know what I'm talking about. All of this leading to this one moment, where the world is the most "itself" its ever been. The thing we all know and understand. The hierarchy of things. The deer was born, it lived, and it made its way to this pivotal moment - a day’s sustenance for a stranger. Perhaps some biological thrill for this bear who doesn't really ever think about anything at all. And the most pain the deer has ever experienced.
And then it’s gone forever.
Deer can’t think as much as we can. I think about the mistakes that people make.
More likely than not, you have to truly fuck up, to get eaten as a person.
It’s almost like a throwback! Or a real moment of empathy. You're sharing a true, kindred understanding of the experience shared by your fellow prey. We’re not supposed to be in this, and yet, you hiked in the wrong spot, took the wrong advice, made the wrong sorts of noises, and assumed the world was fair. And you were eaten.
You were born. And then you were eaten. You were a day’s sustenance for a bear.
And that was the point! That was your point. That is why you were born. To be energy for something that only acts on instinct. All of the points along the way – the ways that you influenced people, or hurt them, or hugged them, or fucked them, or truly cared about them, or were oblivious (P.S. this is the one that killed you), they led to this.
People gather around you and your mother in the room you were born in. You’re born with company. You’re never born alone. Imagine if they all knew how it all was going to end.
You were born to feed a stranger.
You, very likely, believed that all of this was fair. And that you might have some luck. Or some God. You thought that terrible happenings were aberrations– rare, far away, would never happen to you. Three sentence stories in the paper.
But that same programming that exists in the deer exists in you. Pain = Bad. Getting Devoured = Death. Evolution hates death. LIVE. SURVIVE. REPRODUCE. You must! And here’s your reminder to make sure that nature keeps you in check – the worst fucking physical pain on planet earth. Ungodly pain. Pain off the spectrum. Pain you didn’t know you could access. Pain that humans have, for the most part, completely wiped out. But it’s there! You’re an animal after all.
And yet, something more sinister is paired with all of this. Deer don’t read philosophy. You do. You read The Metamorphosis in Lit 101 and it made you feel empty. Forgetting Sarah Marshall left a personal impact on you in a way that you just know is different from your peers. Sometimes in the middle of the night you think about how much you love your mom and you’re so confused at how little you feel that during the day but at night you just wanna cry and bawl and fucking hell you just love everyone. You read poetry. You listen to stand up comedy. You’ve listened to Jerry Seinfeld talk about joke construction. Words. Their meaning. The ways in which you arrange them. Delivery. There’s a good way to write something. There’s a perfect way to write something. Conversations have rhythm. Dialogue in scripts. Aaron Sorkin has a specific style of writing. He just does. It clicks for some people. It doesn’t for others. You like it, for the most part.
And now you’re getting eaten by a bear.
And beyond the physical pain is the mental pain. You have to think about this as you feed a stranger. Your whole life. All of the beautiful moments. The ways in which people describe the cosmos. Star stuff. A divine order to things. Everything happens for a reason.
A bear with a dead stare eats you. You fade away.
The bear escapes on its merry way.
Life goes on.
I stop thinking about you.
I think about ordering a Slurpee using Uber Eats. I opt for Skip the Dishes instead. I’m not sure why.
May you rest in peace.
2023.03.31 07:50 Niniboi123 Forever SMP [Semi-Vanilla] [Graylist] {1.19.3} {JAVA} {Dynmap} {No-Wipe}
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* DiscordSRV
* Wandering trader
* Armor statues
* Phantom Spawn Control
* Custom nether portals
* Coordinates hud
# JOIN US!
If you're interested in joining our community and helping us kickstart a brand new server, feel free to join us on Discord using the link provided below. We would love to have you join us and help build a thriving and friendly community on Forever SMP! [Discord Link](https://discord.com/invite/HezCuP8NZ8)
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Welcome to Forever SMP, a semi-vanilla Minecraft server! We are a community-oriented server with a focus on the vanilla aspect of Minecraft. We are an open and accepting community who wants our players to feel safe and free of any harassment, trolling, or toxicity. We use a community-based application system, where the community votes on each application for new members.
* We provide a friendly & enjoyable experience
* Our server is lag free with quality hosting performance. The server doesn't disappoint.
* We run events each month. Creative Building - PVP Events - Competitions, etc.
* We have a shopping district which is run similarly to the one on HermitCraft.
* The community and players have a lot of influence and are allowed to add their input when it comes to server suggestions or other issues that may arise.
# PLUGINS AND DATABASES
As for the plugins and databases we use, we strive to keep the server as close to the vanilla experience as possible. However, we do have some "quality-of-life" plugins and features that enhance the gameplay experience
* [Dynmap](http://foreversmp.minecraft.best:8100/)
* Simple Voice Chat
* 1 Player Sleep
* Straight to shapeless and other crafting tweaks
* Villager Workstation Highlights
* Universal dye
* More mobs head drops
* Player head drops
* DiscordSRV
* Wandering trader
* Armor statues
* Phantom Spawn Control
* Custom nether portals
* Coordinates hud
# JOIN US!
If you're interested in joining our community and helping us kickstart a brand new server, feel free to join us on Discord using the link provided below. We would love to have you join us and help build a thriving and friendly community on Forever SMP! [Discord Link](https://discord.com/invite/HezCuP8NZ8)
2023.03.31 07:47 One-Progress999 For Riders
 | Please call the uber when you're ready.... after waiting in the queue at the airport for almost an hour I get paired for a long drive headed towards my home for the last drive of the day. Had to wait 48 minutes for you at the airport since you messaged me that YOURE STILL ON THE PLANE, helped you and your husband put your bags in the car, and this put us in the middle of rush hour traffic and traveling through downtown Atlanta. You then ask to take your own path and not trust my two GPS running telling us we're on the fastest route so I oblige.... it adds another 10 minutes onto the route and I have to ask you for directions constantly since both GPS's are trying to get me back to the other way constantly.... this leads to over a 2 hour ride... I still make fun conversation about the adventures of a uber driver and answer all your questions about the job... and you end up rating me 4 stars and not tipping. This led to me doing 1 ride in 4 hours to make 60. That's 15$ an hour then also subtract gas and car mileage from that. Please. Hail the Uber when you're waiting for the pickup. Don't waist our time and use your heads. submitted by One-Progress999 to uber [link] [comments] |
2023.03.31 07:47 Evil333 Kiger vs Magnite vs Brezza vxi
Hello
First time car buyer here. I was initially looking for second hand cars but is over priced and have dropped the idea - planning to get a new car and need your suggestions.
Budget was 11L and currently extended to 13L.
Dealer's quote :
Not an enthusiast. Not frequent user. Maybe twice a week within the city and once a quarter long drive. Just want a car which would be reliable in the long run and slightly tall as I'm 6'2.
Others : Tried Baleno, Amaze but wasn't comfortable with the height.
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First time car buyer here. I was initially looking for second hand cars but is over priced and have dropped the idea - planning to get a new car and need your suggestions.
Budget was 11L and currently extended to 13L.
Dealer's quote :
- Magnite CVT XV Premium and new Kiger RXZ Turbo [with ESP, HSA, TCS] : 13L
- Old Kiger [without ESP, HSA, TCS] : 12.4L
- Brezza VXI : 13.5L
Not an enthusiast. Not frequent user. Maybe twice a week within the city and once a quarter long drive. Just want a car which would be reliable in the long run and slightly tall as I'm 6'2.
Others : Tried Baleno, Amaze but wasn't comfortable with the height.
2023.03.31 07:45 MEE97B Really need help diagnosing issues on R33 skyline
 | Hey all, Anyone got a lot of knowledge on r33 gts25t's? Got a 1995 series 2 gts25t Mines playing up on me, hesitates, flat spot around 2500rpm, occasional misfire under WOT, has randomly shut off twice when driving in the past, but very far apart. Now about 2 weeks ago it dies on a roundabout on the way to the supermarket. Would turn over, start, then stop immediately. Then it would run for 2 minutes, then start stop again. Now it'll run fine after sitting for a day until I try to drive it. I get about 10 meters then it dies. It's not fuel side related, I checked voltage and even directly wired fuel pump to battery and issue persists. It's got a new cam angle sensor. The only things left now are spark, injectors, and AFM. I got a consult cables to check these and it's simply not working, bought it from stahlcar and it's got a red light. submitted by MEE97B to MechanicAdvice [link] [comments] The only way I can replicate the issue is by unplugging the MAF, which causes it to start and immediately die like the car would. I'm really lost now, have no idea what the issue is or why the cable isn't working. Hopefully someone out there can help? |
2023.03.31 07:43 AtraHassis Dynamic mic buzz, system load makes it louder.
So I bought the rode podmic, hooked it into my mixer and sent it to my computer. The audio is actually pretty good after a little eq but without a pre activator I have to crank the gain. Obviously. Well when I did that I heard this small little crackle noise. Wasn't really anything until I launched some programs and a game.
Once my system came under load the whine and buzz noise became much louder and more frequent.
If I limit the frame rate to 30 there is nearly zero noise but if I play at my normal 120 there's an insane level of buzz.
This is where it gets far more weird. I took the podmic back and got an em-99b. Same exact problem. Tried 2 different XLR cables from different companies, same problem.
I decided to plug in my gxl2200 LDC and put the phantom on to get it running and..... Zero buzz, zero whine. Cranked my preamps and ran the game at 300fps, waved the mic around, even stuck it in the computer. Absolutely zero buzzing. Just fan noise.
Returned to the dynamic mic with phantom power off and instantly at 300fps the buzzing was extremely loud. I noticed when moving the mic away from the computer that the buzzing would get quieter. Eventually moved it roughly 10ft away and there was zero buzzing.
I decided to move it back to hear the buzzing and one by one unplug every USB. No change.
Powered off everything and made sure absolutely no cables were contacting anywhere. No change.
Held every live cable to see if I could hear an audio change. No change.
Ran tests for emf, AC magnetic field, and radio. Absolutely no problems everything was in normal levels.
When pointing the mic at my NVME drive is when it becomes the absolute loudest. Tried putting my condenser mic nearly touching the NVME and zero buzz or whine.
Grounded myself with a wrist wrap to see if I was powder or electroman, no change.
Used every single XLR jack and line option on my board, no change.
Disabled all onboard wifi and audio. No change.
Reinstalled all drivers and even changed my mouse. No change.
Removed Bluetooth. No change.
Swapped around audio usb plugs into 2.0, 3.0, and 3.2. no change.
I am at a complete loss of ideas and I've exhausted my "now how" in troubleshooting this problem.
My last option is returning everything, staying with my condenser, and just toughing out it picking up every sound until I can build some heavy duty isolation walls.
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Once my system came under load the whine and buzz noise became much louder and more frequent.
If I limit the frame rate to 30 there is nearly zero noise but if I play at my normal 120 there's an insane level of buzz.
This is where it gets far more weird. I took the podmic back and got an em-99b. Same exact problem. Tried 2 different XLR cables from different companies, same problem.
I decided to plug in my gxl2200 LDC and put the phantom on to get it running and..... Zero buzz, zero whine. Cranked my preamps and ran the game at 300fps, waved the mic around, even stuck it in the computer. Absolutely zero buzzing. Just fan noise.
Returned to the dynamic mic with phantom power off and instantly at 300fps the buzzing was extremely loud. I noticed when moving the mic away from the computer that the buzzing would get quieter. Eventually moved it roughly 10ft away and there was zero buzzing.
I decided to move it back to hear the buzzing and one by one unplug every USB. No change.
Powered off everything and made sure absolutely no cables were contacting anywhere. No change.
Held every live cable to see if I could hear an audio change. No change.
Ran tests for emf, AC magnetic field, and radio. Absolutely no problems everything was in normal levels.
When pointing the mic at my NVME drive is when it becomes the absolute loudest. Tried putting my condenser mic nearly touching the NVME and zero buzz or whine.
Grounded myself with a wrist wrap to see if I was powder or electroman, no change.
Used every single XLR jack and line option on my board, no change.
Disabled all onboard wifi and audio. No change.
Reinstalled all drivers and even changed my mouse. No change.
Removed Bluetooth. No change.
Swapped around audio usb plugs into 2.0, 3.0, and 3.2. no change.
I am at a complete loss of ideas and I've exhausted my "now how" in troubleshooting this problem.
My last option is returning everything, staying with my condenser, and just toughing out it picking up every sound until I can build some heavy duty isolation walls.
2023.03.31 07:41 Creepyy_Cattyy Need advice for leaving a friend due to dangerous circumstances
Hi, might guilt delete later, but I (24F) have a friend around my age that's been my friend for years. About 6 months ago we started getting close again. We started working together. Since then, she's tried to leave her abusive baby daddy who laid hands on her. He went up to our job, tried to fight someone who she was talking to and he spilt his face with a punch, she was hiding over here at my place. He showed up to my house, an argument started in my yard and he started putting hands on her and I unfortunately had to pull a gun on him.
The cops have been called multiple times, against her wishes, and he kept coming to our job to see if she was there, but the part that really drew the line for me is when we decided to take a smoke break with a guy who worked with us at our job, just as I was getting into the car, her baby daddy pulls up beside us and runs out and tries to pull open the door, so work guy drives off before baby daddy busts out windows, he chases us in his truck, running stop signs, trying to drive into us, riding in the turn lane beside us, and he throws a full beer can at the window busting it right beside me all while dispatch is on the phone. I feel bad for her because now she's back with him and I feel like I emotionally exhausted myself to get her away from him only for her to take herself right back to him.
I don't want to be around her, I'm not victim blaming because I know abuse isn't as simple as upping and leaving, but I literally will not allow myself to be around her while she's in a relationship with him. Neither will my boyfriend. I feel so awkward to even be around her at work, it doesn't help that she's abusing drugs and anything I try to say or if I show any type of anxiety she jumps down my throat like she's just annoyed with me at this point over any situation. It makes me want to quit my job so I don't even have to subject myself to another scary/emotional/dramatic situation because I feel like I'm watching her destroy her life everyday. It feels like she's not even considerate for all the help I've given her or trauma I've been subjected to, or the fact that we probably won't be able to continue to hang out. Any advice is welcome.
submitted by Creepyy_Cattyy to Advice [link] [comments]
The cops have been called multiple times, against her wishes, and he kept coming to our job to see if she was there, but the part that really drew the line for me is when we decided to take a smoke break with a guy who worked with us at our job, just as I was getting into the car, her baby daddy pulls up beside us and runs out and tries to pull open the door, so work guy drives off before baby daddy busts out windows, he chases us in his truck, running stop signs, trying to drive into us, riding in the turn lane beside us, and he throws a full beer can at the window busting it right beside me all while dispatch is on the phone. I feel bad for her because now she's back with him and I feel like I emotionally exhausted myself to get her away from him only for her to take herself right back to him.
I don't want to be around her, I'm not victim blaming because I know abuse isn't as simple as upping and leaving, but I literally will not allow myself to be around her while she's in a relationship with him. Neither will my boyfriend. I feel so awkward to even be around her at work, it doesn't help that she's abusing drugs and anything I try to say or if I show any type of anxiety she jumps down my throat like she's just annoyed with me at this point over any situation. It makes me want to quit my job so I don't even have to subject myself to another scary/emotional/dramatic situation because I feel like I'm watching her destroy her life everyday. It feels like she's not even considerate for all the help I've given her or trauma I've been subjected to, or the fact that we probably won't be able to continue to hang out. Any advice is welcome.
2023.03.31 07:40 Autoplanetwheels Benefits of Professional Brake Repair Services
 | When it comes to car maintenance, brakes are an important system that requires regular attention. Professional brake repair services are one of the best ways to ensure that your brakes are in good working order and that you can keep your car safe on the road. This article will discuss the benefits of professional brake repair services, and why it is important to make sure that your brakes are regularly checked and maintained. submitted by Autoplanetwheels to u/Autoplanetwheels [link] [comments] https://preview.redd.it/re2vs2c9i0ra1.png?width=400&format=png&auto=webp&s=7982cb30ca26c8f6c6560c502aa46c33139d29b8 The most important benefit of professional brake repair services is safety. If your brakes are not in good working order, it can be dangerous to drive your car. This is especially true if you need to stop quickly in an emergency situation. Professional brake repair services can help to identify any potential issues with your brakes, and make sure that they are working correctly. This can help to keep you and your passengers safe while you are on the road. Another benefit of professional brake repair services is that they can help to save you money. If you do not regularly maintain your brakes, it can lead to more expensive repairs down the road. This can include replacing worn brake pads, replacing rotors, and even replacing the entire brake system. Professional brake repair services can help to identify potential issues early on, which can help to reduce the amount of money that you will need to spend on repairs in the future. In addition to safety and cost savings, professional brake repair services can also help to improve the performance of your car. By ensuring that your brakes are regularly checked and maintained, you can help to keep your car running smoothly. This can help to improve your fuel economy and help to reduce your emissions. Regular maintenance can also help to extend the life of your brakes, which can help to reduce the amount of money that you need to spend on replacing them. Finally, professional brake repair services can also help to provide a sense of peace of mind when you are driving. Knowing that your brakes are in good working order can help to give you confidence when you are behind the wheel. This can also help to reduce stress, which can make your overall driving experience more enjoyable. Overall, professional brake repair services can provide a variety of benefits to drivers. From improved safety to cost savings to improved performance, professional brake repair services can help to make sure that your car is in good working order. It is important to make sure that your brakes are regularly checked and maintained in order to keep your car safe on the road. With the help of professional brake repair services, you can be sure that your brakes will be in top condition for a long time to come. |
2023.03.31 07:32 Autoplanetwheels Reasons Why Regular Brake Checks Are Necessary for Safe Driving
 | When it comes to safe driving, there are a number of factors that should be taken into consideration. One of the most important of these is regular brake repair service. The brakes of your vehicle are one of the most vital components and ensuring that they are working correctly is essential for keeping you and other road users safe. submitted by Autoplanetwheels to u/Autoplanetwheels [link] [comments] https://preview.redd.it/6d36uyatg0ra1.png?width=400&format=png&auto=webp&s=d33d288d08a73ece09403dffaef061b3b724254b In this blog, we’ll be exploring the reasons why regular brake checks are necessary for safe driving. We’ll be looking at the importance of ensuring that your brakes are in perfect working condition, the signs that you should be looking out for, and the consequences of not having regular brake checks. Why Regular Brake Checks Are Necessary Your brakes are one of the most important components of your vehicle and, as such, they should be checked and maintained regularly. Brakes are used to slow down and stop your vehicle, and they need to be in perfect working condition in order to do this properly. If your brakes are not properly maintained, they can start to wear down, which can affect their performance and, ultimately, your safety on the road. Regular brake checks are essential for ensuring that your brakes are in good condition and working as they should. During a brake check, your mechanic will inspect the brake pads and discs, to make sure that they are not worn and that they are working correctly. They will also check the brake fluid to make sure that it is at the correct level. Signs That You Should Look Out For There are a number of signs that you should be looking out for which can indicate that your brakes may need to be checked. One of the most common is a squealing or grinding sound when you press the brakes. This could be an indication that the brake pads are too worn and need to be replaced. You should also pay attention to any signs of vibration when you are braking, as this could be an indication that the brakes are out of alignment. In addition to these signs, you should also check your brake fluid regularly. If the fluid level is low, then this could be an indication that there is a leak in the brake system and that it needs to be checked by a mechanic. Consequences of Not Having Regular Brake Checks As we’ve already mentioned, the consequences of not having regular brake checks can be extremely serious. If your brakes are worn and not working correctly, it can take longer for your vehicle to stop, which can result in serious accidents. Additionally, if you are driving a vehicle with defective brakes, you may be liable if you cause an accident due to your brakes not working correctly. In addition to this, not having regular brake checks can also result in your vehicle being more expensive to maintain. If your brakes are not in good condition, then the parts may need to be replaced more regularly, which could cost you more in the long run. Conclusion It is clear that regular brake checks are essential for safe driving. Not having regular brake checks can result in your brakes not working correctly, which can lead to serious accidents. It is important to be aware of the signs that your brakes may need to be checked, such as a squealing or grinding sound when you press the brakes, or any signs of vibration. Additionally, you should also check the level of your brake fluid regularly. By ensuring that your brakes are in good condition, you can rest assured that you are driving safely and that you are not putting yourself and other road users at risk. |
2023.03.31 07:24 RedditPicked Reddit Writer’s Room - What real life medical cases or staff stories do you know in real life? (Can be either a “this sounds like straight out of grey’s” wild or “this needs to be on grey’s!”) Sometimes truth is stranger than fiction, let’s hear them!
Whether it’s a headline (share article please) or personal (you, friend, family member etc, just protect privacy) story. ETA: can be something that hasn’t been on grey’s! (Almost preferable, but the real life - “this grey’s item happened to me” stories are fascinating too!)
Headline: A rodeo bull got out and injured a few people, including a woman who’s injuries led her to being diagnosed early with cancer. https://krcrtv.com/news/local/woman-struck-by-rodeo-bull-saves-her-life-revealing-she-has-cancer
Personal: Had a friend who had two kids one of each so family was complete, needed gall bladder surgery for gallstones (common for women in 30s and fertile) so she had them tie her tubes. She was struggling post op for weeks with recovery in regard to her appetite and nausea. After a month they ran more tests as it wasn’t normal to still have issues at that point. Turns out she was pregnant. 6 weeks. There was a panic period given the operation etc. Baby born and grew up fine. The pre op labs were likely a week too early to detect.
Another pregnancy story (just given Jo and Karina being characters so seems more OB) but having a friend diagnosed with breast cancer while pregnant. It’s more common than people realize. They had a mastectomy, chemo, while pregnant, then a break a few weeks before and after birth and then back to chemo.
A good station 19 esque crossover: Knew someone who was driving on freeway and truck in lane next to them had an overloaded trailer swing in front of them. They had an old classic truck without airbags so it essentially snapped their neck forward. They were in pain and about to lay down after they sort of recovered from the initial wtf just happened but immediately a man in scrubs (obviously a grey Sloan character could fill here or even helm sans scrubs) was screaming “don’t move!!!” from the other side of the freeway and running towards him, hopped the median and checked on him and told him not to move a muscle. The X-ray showed a broken neck in multiple vertebrae but miraculously the cord was not harmed, likely because of the angel in scrubs. He would’ve been a paraplegic without that guy in scrubs. (They tried to find the person to thank them or send them on a vacation as a thank you but never did, they left the scene once his neck was stabilized.)
There is a real life idiot doctor who was screwing a different person on a different floor of the hospital.
submitted by RedditPicked to greysanatomy [link] [comments]
Headline: A rodeo bull got out and injured a few people, including a woman who’s injuries led her to being diagnosed early with cancer. https://krcrtv.com/news/local/woman-struck-by-rodeo-bull-saves-her-life-revealing-she-has-cancer
Personal: Had a friend who had two kids one of each so family was complete, needed gall bladder surgery for gallstones (common for women in 30s and fertile) so she had them tie her tubes. She was struggling post op for weeks with recovery in regard to her appetite and nausea. After a month they ran more tests as it wasn’t normal to still have issues at that point. Turns out she was pregnant. 6 weeks. There was a panic period given the operation etc. Baby born and grew up fine. The pre op labs were likely a week too early to detect.
Another pregnancy story (just given Jo and Karina being characters so seems more OB) but having a friend diagnosed with breast cancer while pregnant. It’s more common than people realize. They had a mastectomy, chemo, while pregnant, then a break a few weeks before and after birth and then back to chemo.
A good station 19 esque crossover: Knew someone who was driving on freeway and truck in lane next to them had an overloaded trailer swing in front of them. They had an old classic truck without airbags so it essentially snapped their neck forward. They were in pain and about to lay down after they sort of recovered from the initial wtf just happened but immediately a man in scrubs (obviously a grey Sloan character could fill here or even helm sans scrubs) was screaming “don’t move!!!” from the other side of the freeway and running towards him, hopped the median and checked on him and told him not to move a muscle. The X-ray showed a broken neck in multiple vertebrae but miraculously the cord was not harmed, likely because of the angel in scrubs. He would’ve been a paraplegic without that guy in scrubs. (They tried to find the person to thank them or send them on a vacation as a thank you but never did, they left the scene once his neck was stabilized.)
There is a real life idiot doctor who was screwing a different person on a different floor of the hospital.
2023.03.31 07:23 NotSoFreezy Should reset the OS after RAM OC related issues?
Title. I've been using XMP profile for my G Skill Trident Z5 DDR5 6400 MHz DIMM CL32 F5-6400J3239G16GX2-TZ5RK. Wasn't having any issues at first, but games started crashing with graphic driver errors, and even BSODed once(IRQL not less or equal).
Couldn't figure out the cause at first, but now that I've run memtest86 it's clear the issue is with the poorly made XMP profile.
I've been wondering if I should completely format my drive and reinstall the OS?
Should I fear driver or OS corruption? Probably a frequently asked question, but couldn't find anything atm
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Couldn't figure out the cause at first, but now that I've run memtest86 it's clear the issue is with the poorly made XMP profile.
I've been wondering if I should completely format my drive and reinstall the OS?
Should I fear driver or OS corruption? Probably a frequently asked question, but couldn't find anything atm
2023.03.31 07:16 theJanitorsHat Installing Linux Mint on a new hard drive, using laptop running Mint. Don't have access to a USB.
I can connect the new hard drive externally. Is it possible to install mint on it, and then swap the old hard drive?
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2023.03.31 07:14 Creepyy_Cattyy Ending a friendship due to dangerous circumstances
Hi, might guilt delete later, but I (24F) have a friend around my age that's been my friend for years. About 6 months ago we started getting close again. We started working together. Since then, she's tried to leave her abusive baby daddy who laid hands on her. He went up to our job, tried to fight someone who she was talking to and he spilt his face with a punch, she was hiding over here at my place. He showed up to my house, an argument started in my yard and he started putting hands on her and I unfortunately had to pull a gun on him. The cops have been called multiple times, against her wishes, and he kept coming to our job to see if she was there, but the part that really drew the line for me is when we decided to take a smoke break with a guy who worked with us at our job, just as I was getting into the car, her baby daddy pulls up beside us and runs out and tries to pull open the door, so work guy drives off before baby daddy busts out windows, he chases us in his truck, running stop signs, trying to drive into us, riding in the turn lane beside us, and he throws a full beer can at the window busting it right beside me all while dispatch is on the phone. I feel bad for her because now she's back with him and I feel like I emotionally exhausted myself to get her away from him only for her to take herself right back to him. I don't want to be around her, I'm not victim blaming because I know abuse isn't as simple as upping and leaving, but I literally will not allow myself to be around her while she's in a relationship with him. Neither will my boyfriend. I feel so awkward to even be around her at work, it doesn't help that she's abusing drugs and anything I try to say or if I show any type of anxiety she jumps down my throat like she's just annoyed with me at this point over any situation. It makes me want to quit my job so I don't even have to subject myself to another scary/emotional/dramatic situation because I feel like I'm watching her destroy her life everyday. It feels like she's not even considerate for all the help I've given her or trauma I've been subjected to, or the fact that we probably won't be able to continue to hang out. Any advice is welcome.
submitted by Creepyy_Cattyy to FriendshipAdvice [link] [comments]
2023.03.31 07:12 Big-Incident-568 Zoloft not working after 12 weeks
Hey guys, truthfully, I’m tired. Beginning of 2021 to end of 2022 I was on cipralex. Went from 50mg, to 75mg. Was an emotionless zombie, 0 feelings, 0 empathy & still depressed.
Switched to Zoloft beginning of 2023. 50MG (2 weeks) - didn’t work. 75mg for another 2 weeks - didn’t work. 100mg for 8 weeks now & nothing has changed.
Added wellburtin a month ago for energy, still nothing’s changed.
Everyone says to wait 8 weeks for it to kick in, but I haven’t even felt slightly better.
The first few weeks were horrible, zero motivation, stressed, more depressed & extreme fatigue. Could sleep for 24 hours if I wanted to
Still experiencing fatigue, past few weeks things have gotten worse in terms of emotional numbness. I have lost interest in absolutely everything as well. Even music, I shut it off & drive in silence now which is definitely not me. The smallest task is daunting to me which is no good cuz I run a business. I have 0 feelings. I can win the lottery tomorrow & I would feel indifferent.
Anyone experience the same? Did you wake up one day & suddenly everything was great again or was it gradual? I’ll never stop the journey of antidepressants because I want to get better but god I’ve been waiting way too long. Been depressed for 7 years as well.
Any advise? Should I switch to lexapro? & if I do, do I have to wait another 8 weeks for that to kick in :/
submitted by Big-Incident-568 to antidepressants [link] [comments]
Switched to Zoloft beginning of 2023. 50MG (2 weeks) - didn’t work. 75mg for another 2 weeks - didn’t work. 100mg for 8 weeks now & nothing has changed.
Added wellburtin a month ago for energy, still nothing’s changed.
Everyone says to wait 8 weeks for it to kick in, but I haven’t even felt slightly better.
The first few weeks were horrible, zero motivation, stressed, more depressed & extreme fatigue. Could sleep for 24 hours if I wanted to
Still experiencing fatigue, past few weeks things have gotten worse in terms of emotional numbness. I have lost interest in absolutely everything as well. Even music, I shut it off & drive in silence now which is definitely not me. The smallest task is daunting to me which is no good cuz I run a business. I have 0 feelings. I can win the lottery tomorrow & I would feel indifferent.
Anyone experience the same? Did you wake up one day & suddenly everything was great again or was it gradual? I’ll never stop the journey of antidepressants because I want to get better but god I’ve been waiting way too long. Been depressed for 7 years as well.
Any advise? Should I switch to lexapro? & if I do, do I have to wait another 8 weeks for that to kick in :/
2023.03.31 07:11 LFKShawn 35 [M4F] Kansas / CST - Let's be the best thing that's ever happened to each other
Hello! I'm Shawn! 35 M near Kansas City.
I have a standard array of hobbies/interests that aren't that unique. I like animals, movies, games, and road trips. More niche stuff is birdfeeders, weird electronic music, 3d printing, dnd, and cosplay.
I'm fully independent, child free and sterilized, employed, active (but could always be more active), and peaceful. I have friends and a social life. I'm super left wing and don't smoke or drink. I have my shit together. I'm just looking for my partner and best friend to live life and conquer the moon with.
I'm near Kansas City and looking for someone within a ~3 hour drive or so. I can make the trip, my car has good gas mileage.
I like helping people. Talking, cleaning, carrying things, running errands, making food, whatever. I'm happiest when I can make others happy. Call it support, service, assistance, whatever you'd like. It's what I enjoy doing. Helped a friend clean and rearrange their apartment a couple weeks ago and still feel good about it.
So if you need help with things in your life, maybe even a lot of things, and you're worried that someone you're interested in won't like that, you don't have to worry about me. If you worry about not being able to contribute 50/50 to a partnership, I don't mind covering the gap.
For relationships, I'm a soft guy. I'm looking for and wanting to provide affection and quiet moments. Unlimited cuddle capacity. Come home from work and let me hold you and ask you about your day. I really do want to hear it.
Here's the dream: There's two of us, probably me and hopefully you. We're both gainfully employed so we can get a house to house our stuff. We've got a really long table in one room for tabletop/board games and art stuff. My paints tend to take up a lot of space. We've got a small yard that we fill with birdfeeders. Like a dozen birdfeeders. Hopefully nothing's on fire. I'm a big fan of those couples computer setups but that's not a requirement. On weekends, we fight skeletons.
Here's me and my cat, Dinosaur. I like cosplay, especially making props. Can I make you something for yours?
Send a message! I'd love to hear about you, your animals, what game you're playing, what's going on in your life or whatever you'd like to talk about! I'll be here.
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I have a standard array of hobbies/interests that aren't that unique. I like animals, movies, games, and road trips. More niche stuff is birdfeeders, weird electronic music, 3d printing, dnd, and cosplay.
I'm fully independent, child free and sterilized, employed, active (but could always be more active), and peaceful. I have friends and a social life. I'm super left wing and don't smoke or drink. I have my shit together. I'm just looking for my partner and best friend to live life and conquer the moon with.
I'm near Kansas City and looking for someone within a ~3 hour drive or so. I can make the trip, my car has good gas mileage.
I like helping people. Talking, cleaning, carrying things, running errands, making food, whatever. I'm happiest when I can make others happy. Call it support, service, assistance, whatever you'd like. It's what I enjoy doing. Helped a friend clean and rearrange their apartment a couple weeks ago and still feel good about it.
So if you need help with things in your life, maybe even a lot of things, and you're worried that someone you're interested in won't like that, you don't have to worry about me. If you worry about not being able to contribute 50/50 to a partnership, I don't mind covering the gap.
For relationships, I'm a soft guy. I'm looking for and wanting to provide affection and quiet moments. Unlimited cuddle capacity. Come home from work and let me hold you and ask you about your day. I really do want to hear it.
Here's the dream: There's two of us, probably me and hopefully you. We're both gainfully employed so we can get a house to house our stuff. We've got a really long table in one room for tabletop/board games and art stuff. My paints tend to take up a lot of space. We've got a small yard that we fill with birdfeeders. Like a dozen birdfeeders. Hopefully nothing's on fire. I'm a big fan of those couples computer setups but that's not a requirement. On weekends, we fight skeletons.
Here's me and my cat, Dinosaur. I like cosplay, especially making props. Can I make you something for yours?
Send a message! I'd love to hear about you, your animals, what game you're playing, what's going on in your life or whatever you'd like to talk about! I'll be here.
2023.03.31 07:10 galaxy_girl27 Being a new mom is so effing hard
Social media really undersells how hard being a mom is. Like I’ve always heard how hard it is but holy cow, it’s just so much. I’m just dealing with so much and it absolutely overwhelming. To top it off, I finally got diagnosed with POTS, so along with PPD, I’m also taking beta blockers that make me feel like hell
My partner helps with her but not as much as he should. I’ve tried to communicate this with him but it really doesn’t get anywhere. I’m the only one that does night care since he’s a semi truck driver. For the past 9 months I’ve been doing 90% of the care for her, he’ll do stuff when I ask but I hate needing to ask in the first place. Since November, I’ve been working weekends. So I have her 100% of the time 5 days a week and then I work 8hrs a day, come home and immediately jump back into caring for her. I haven’t had a break since we brought her home, I’m so burnt out. He often drives truck and can be gone multiple night, so he does get to get away from the chaos for a bit, but I wouldn’t particularly call it a break.
On top of this all, we all 3 live in a camp trailer with a leaking roof and mold. I’ve been trying to get help from the state to get housing assistance for the last few months and they all just keep giving me the run around. I’ve even called CPS on myself to get help, but they said since I’m trying to do everything I can to rectify our situation, they can’t help. It’s so infuriating because this is not a safe or conducive environment for my daughter but I can’t get help from anyone and we sure as heck cant afford an apartment where we live (west coast living is expensive)
To make it even better, our trailer is parked on my partner’s parents property. They are both alcoholics and his dad is a narcissist that threatens to kick us off his property multiple times a month. Especially if my partner isn’t helping them with everything they need. So when he is home, we are constantly put second because if he isn’t on his dad beck and call, it will become a screaming match.
Between his parents making him make us a second priority, him not helping me enough, and my partner cheating on me while I was pregnant, I honestly don’t know if I want to continue this relationship. We’re going to couples counseling, but everything is so hard and I don’t know what I want.
This all came to a nasty head last night when his dad texted me with an attitude about taking the trash out. My POTS was really acting up yesterday and I have had the baby by myself since Monday because my partner was doing a long haul. I was exhausted, she’s clingy and cutting teeth, so I couldn’t even pee by myself. It came down to his dad once again threatening to kick us off the property. I was so enraged, I turned off my phone before I told him if he continued to threaten us, he was never going to see his granddaughter again. So his dad called him pissed off, partner called me pissed off, asking why I didn’t ask for help and I tried to explain to him that that was just adding to my mental load and I cannot handle anything else right now. I ended up hanging up on him because he kept telling me that was a poor excuse.
I’m honestly struggling so hard right now. No matter what I do, it isn’t enough. I’m trying so hard to change my situation and change my life and it constantly feels like one step forward and two steps backwards.
I know this is long and if you stuck with it this long, thank you. I know it’s a lot but I really just needed to get this out there.
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My partner helps with her but not as much as he should. I’ve tried to communicate this with him but it really doesn’t get anywhere. I’m the only one that does night care since he’s a semi truck driver. For the past 9 months I’ve been doing 90% of the care for her, he’ll do stuff when I ask but I hate needing to ask in the first place. Since November, I’ve been working weekends. So I have her 100% of the time 5 days a week and then I work 8hrs a day, come home and immediately jump back into caring for her. I haven’t had a break since we brought her home, I’m so burnt out. He often drives truck and can be gone multiple night, so he does get to get away from the chaos for a bit, but I wouldn’t particularly call it a break.
On top of this all, we all 3 live in a camp trailer with a leaking roof and mold. I’ve been trying to get help from the state to get housing assistance for the last few months and they all just keep giving me the run around. I’ve even called CPS on myself to get help, but they said since I’m trying to do everything I can to rectify our situation, they can’t help. It’s so infuriating because this is not a safe or conducive environment for my daughter but I can’t get help from anyone and we sure as heck cant afford an apartment where we live (west coast living is expensive)
To make it even better, our trailer is parked on my partner’s parents property. They are both alcoholics and his dad is a narcissist that threatens to kick us off his property multiple times a month. Especially if my partner isn’t helping them with everything they need. So when he is home, we are constantly put second because if he isn’t on his dad beck and call, it will become a screaming match.
Between his parents making him make us a second priority, him not helping me enough, and my partner cheating on me while I was pregnant, I honestly don’t know if I want to continue this relationship. We’re going to couples counseling, but everything is so hard and I don’t know what I want.
This all came to a nasty head last night when his dad texted me with an attitude about taking the trash out. My POTS was really acting up yesterday and I have had the baby by myself since Monday because my partner was doing a long haul. I was exhausted, she’s clingy and cutting teeth, so I couldn’t even pee by myself. It came down to his dad once again threatening to kick us off the property. I was so enraged, I turned off my phone before I told him if he continued to threaten us, he was never going to see his granddaughter again. So his dad called him pissed off, partner called me pissed off, asking why I didn’t ask for help and I tried to explain to him that that was just adding to my mental load and I cannot handle anything else right now. I ended up hanging up on him because he kept telling me that was a poor excuse.
I’m honestly struggling so hard right now. No matter what I do, it isn’t enough. I’m trying so hard to change my situation and change my life and it constantly feels like one step forward and two steps backwards.
I know this is long and if you stuck with it this long, thank you. I know it’s a lot but I really just needed to get this out there.
2023.03.31 07:09 Autoplanetwheels How to Choose the Right Lube, Oil & Filters for Your Vehicle
 | Whether you own an old car, a new car, or something in between, you’ll need to choose the right lube, oil, and filters for your vehicle. Not only is this important for keeping your vehicle running smoothly and efficiently, but it can also save you time, money, and stress in the long run. submitted by Autoplanetwheels to u/Autoplanetwheels [link] [comments] In this post, we’ll go over how to choose the right lube, oil, and filters for your vehicle. We’ll discuss the types of lube, oil, and filters that are available, as well as the factors you should consider when making your decision. Finally, we’ll provide some tips for getting the most out of your lube, oil, and filters. https://preview.redd.it/87lnmmb8b0ra1.png?width=400&format=png&auto=webp&s=3909738cba2f452e80f268dd5beea0a3dfa3ca3e Types of Lube, Oil, and Filters When it comes to choosing the right lube, oil, and filters for your vehicle, there are several options available. The type of lube, oil, and filters you choose will depend on your vehicle’s make, model, and year. Here are a few of the most common types of lube, oil, and filters: Motor Oil: Motor oil is used to lubricate and cool the moving parts of your vehicle’s engine. It helps to reduce friction and heat, which can reduce wear and tear on your engine. Additionally, motor oil helps to keep your engine clean by trapping dirt and debris. Synthetic Oil: Synthetic oil is a type of motor oil made from artificial materials. It is designed to withstand high temperatures and provide additional protection to your engine. Oil Filter: Oil filters are designed to remove dirt and debris from the oil in your engine. This helps to keep your engine clean and running smoothly. Air Filter: Air filters are used to filter the air that enters your engine. They help to reduce the amount of dust, dirt, and other particles that can cause damage to your engine. Fuel Filter: Fuel filters are used to filter the fuel that enters your engine. They help to keep your engine running efficiently and reduce the risk of damage caused by impurities in the fuel. Factors to Consider When Choosing Lube, Oil, and Filters When choosing lube, oil, and filters for your vehicle, there are a few factors that you should consider. Here are a few of the most important factors to consider: Vehicle Make, Model, and Year: As mentioned earlier, the type of lube, oil, and filters you need will depend on your vehicle’s make, model, and year. Make sure to check your vehicle’s owner’s manual to find out the type of lube, oil, and filters you need. Driving Conditions: The type of lube, oil, and filters you need will also depend on the type of driving conditions you are in. For example, if you are driving in a hot climate, you may need a different type of lube or oil than if you were driving in a cold climate. Level of Protection: Different types of lube, oil, and filters provide different levels of protection. Make sure to choose the type of lube, oil, and filters that will provide the best level of protection for your vehicle. Tips for Getting the Most Out of Your Lube, Oil, and Filters Once you’ve chosen the right lube, oil, and filters for your vehicle, it’s important to make sure you get the most out of them. Here are a few tips for getting the most out of your lube, oil, and filters: Change Regularly: One of the most important tips for getting the most out of your lube, oil, and filters is to change them regularly. This will help to ensure that your engine is always running at its best and that it is protected from dirt and debris. Use Quality Products: Make sure to use quality products when it comes to lube, oil, and filters. Using quality products will help to ensure that your engine is getting the best protection possible. Follow Manufacturer Guidelines: Every manufacturer has their own guidelines for lube, oil, and filters. Make sure to follow these guidelines to get the most out of your lube, oil, and filters. By following these tips, you’ll be able to get the most out of your lube, oil, and filters and keep your vehicle running smoothly and efficiently. Conclusion Choosing the right lube, oil, and filters for your vehicle is an important part of vehicle maintenance. Not only will it help to keep your vehicle running smoothly and efficiently, but it can also save you time, money, and stress in the long run. When choosing lube, oil, and filters for your vehicle, make sure to consider the type of lube, oil, and filters that are available, as well as the factors you should consider when making your decision. Additionally, make sure to follow the tips provided in this blog post to get the most out of your lube, oil, and filters. Doing so will help to ensure that your engine is always running at its best and that it is protected from dirt and debris. |
2023.03.31 07:09 Proletlariet Saints Row Boss Backup
You want to fight the best? You fight me.
Note: character customization can be very different from playthrough to playthrough. Canonically, any differences between the SR1 character and the current character are due to surgical intervention. You’ll just have to trust that this is the same character we’re talking about.
Weapons
Any good gangster has a weapon or two. Luckily, the Boss of the Third Street Saints is practically a walking arsenal. Check out this gear:
Melee
Small Arms
- .45 Shepherds (pistols with explosive rounds)
- Cyber Blasters
- TEK Z-10s (SMGs with incendiary rounds)
- Inflato-Ray (inflates heads until they explode)
- Grave Digger (three-barreled shotgun with incendiary rounds)
- K-8 Krukov (assault rifle with grenade launcher attachment)
- Flamethrower
- Heavy Minigun
- Sonic Boom (gun which fires compressed aisound)
- Shark-O-Matic (gun which fires fish guts, attracting a vicious shark)
- Bounce Rifle (rifle which shoots ricocheting energy shots)
- Annihilator (rocket launcher with automated targeting system)
- Satchel Charges (remotely detonated explosives)
- Reaper Drone (controllable military drone)
- SA-3 Airstrike (airstrike targeting system)
- Grenade Launcher (launches grenades)
- Mollusk-o-Matic (gun which shoots mind-controlling octopi which turn enemies into allies when they latch on, and which can be detonated from a distance)
- Dubstep Gun (gun which shoots “explosive wubs” and entrances those nearby into dancing)
- Plunger Gun (shoots explosive plungers which spray gas)
- ‘MERICA (extremely powerful, extremely patriotic WMD)
- Electrical Grenades
- Molotovs
- Grenades
- Cyber Buster (hand cannon)
- RC Possessor (tech which hacks into vehicles and remote-controls them)
- Polarizer (magnet which draws people into a Katamari-style ball, then releases them violently)
- Knifethrower (a gun which fires knives)
- Minethrower Arm (landmine launcher)
- Lasergun Arm (gun which rapid-fires laser shots)
- Black Hole Launcher (gun which fires a miniature black hole)
- Abduction Gun (gun which calls down the mothership to beam foes up)
- Disintegrator (disintegrates enemies on hit)
- Mech Suit
Powers
Super Sprint/Jump/Glide
This allows The Boss to run at incredible speeds, enough to blow away cars in their wake. They can also run on water and run up walls, as well as jump extremely high and glide through the air. They can also perform a special move where they hover in the air, then dive-bomb the ground with a devastating nuke attack, said to be able to devastate entire sections of a city. It is said that when sprinting, The Boss is "practically faster than a speeding bullet"
Blast
This allows The Boss to create a blast of energy from their hands, which can cause a specialized effect on those it hits. The average blast is supposedly capable of covering entire intersections.
- Freeze (Freezes whatever it hits on contact)
- Fire (Ignites whatever it hits on contact)
- Mind Control (Charms whatever it hits onto The Boss’s side on contact)
- Explosion (A fireball which makes all targets in radius explode, then explodes all targets in THAT radius, creating a chain reaction which can potentially continue infinitely)
- Bling (A highly damaging blast which expends money with every use)
This allows The Boss to pick up people and objects with their mind, and also apply a specialized effect to them.
- Force (a simple TK pull and throw with no additional effects)
- Lightning (holding a person with TK turns them into a living Tesla coil which shocks others around them)
- Life Steal (holding a person with TK drains their health into The Boss’s own)
- Explosion (Turns enemies held with TK into living time-bombs)
- Bling (Siphons money away from those held in its grip)
The Stomp power causes massive shockwaves to emanate from the ground where The Boss stomps, creating a specialized effect for anyone caught in the crossfire. This stomp apparently hits with the force of an earthquake and covers entire city blocks
- Rock (powerful stomp attack with no additional effect)
- Gravity (stomp that holds people in place with antigravity)
- Shrink (stomp that shrinks nearby enemies)
- Explosion (stomp that turns those in the effect radius into living time-bombs)
- Bling (stomp that is more powerful than normal, but expends money with each use)
This allows The Boss to cloak themselves in an elemental aura with a specialized effect, as well as imbue their weapons with the same elemental power.
- Fire (surrounds The Boss in a flaming aura and ignites their weapons)
- Lightning (surrounds The Boss in an electric aura and electrifies their weapons)
- Freeze (surrounds The Boss in a chilling aura and freezes their weapons, and by chilling, I mean absolute zero)
- Explosion (surrounds The Boss in an aura that turns those in its radius into living time-bombs and adds an explosive effect to their weapons)
- Bling (surrounds The Boss in an aura that turns those in its radius into golden statues and adds a similar effect to their weapons)
These aren’t technically superpowers, but in Saints Row 3 and 4 you can spend money to give yourself such upgrades as immunity to bullets, explosions, fire, fall damage, and being hit by a vehicle; the ability to run/fly forever without getting tired; unlimited ammunition for all weapons. Yes, what would normally be a cheat code in any other game is a simple upgrade in this series.
You can see a list of the relevant upgrades here
Feats
- Knocks a man out in one punch (SR)
- Knocks a man out with a casual hit to the head with a bottle (SR2)
- Kicks down a wooden door (SR2)
- Can throw a person through wooden boxes (SR2)
- Severs a head with one swing of a machete (SR2)
- Can swing around a concrete block (SR2)
- Kicks the door off of a helicopter (SR2)
- Holds onto a large metal sculpture as it falls several stories (SR3)
- Holds onto and climbs up a nuke mid-flight (SR4)
- Tears Zinyak’s head off (SR4)
- Leaps from an airlifted bank vault onto a ledge and pulls up onto the roof (SR3)
- Very acrobatic (SR4)
- Can recover from getting knocked off their feet and land solidly (SR4)
- Leaps to an incredible height and throws an evil Santa onto a giant Christmas tree (SR4)
- Gets thrown out of a speeding car and gets back up (SR)
- In the final moments of Saints Row, The Boss is blown up in a fiery explosion. Of course, they survive, but in a coma. This leads into the plot of Saints Row 2 (SR)
- Takes a beating from Maero and falls through the ceiling (SR2)
- Hit by a falling car and gets right back into the action (SR3)
- Survives when the car they’re in is hit by a rocket launcher and knocked off of a bridge (SR3)
- Gets caught in a helicopter crash (SR3)
- Falls from a nuke in flight into the Oval Office without a parachute (SR4)
- Gets smacked by a giant Saints Flow can and survives (SR4)
- Withstands getting hit by a bolt of natural lightning (SR4)
- Gets “canonized” into the Third Street Saints by beating up most of their members (SR)
- Fights their way out of a car full of armed opponents while high (SR2)
- They have some swordfighting talent (SR2)
- Lands some devastating moves on Killbane during a wrestling match (SR3)
- Has spaceship-flying skills (SR4)
- Brutal enough to trick a rival gang boss into driving over his girlfriend in a monster truck. (SR2)
- Can take serious hits during Insurance Fraud (Although Kinzie says they won't take significant damage during Insurance Fraud missions) (SR4)
- Exceptionally sexy dancer (SR4)